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PARADISE LOST: "They'll Do What They're Gonna' Do"

7/24/2019

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Nags Head beach in the 1970's: Looking over the Nags Head Fishing Pier toward Jockey's Ridge.
The picture shown above of Nags Head in the 1970's was very popular in its day. It was used by a number of restaurants on their souvenir paper place mats as well as on a post card and it gives a pretty good picture of just how tall Jockey's Ridge used to be and how there was still a lot of open space left in the scrub flats west of the beach road. That area, by the way, served as a filtering system to allow flood waters from storms and tides to percolate through the sand as nature intended. The beachfront had considerably more build-up than it did in my boyhood days of the 1950's and early '60's, but the massive build-up of today had not yet impacted the by-pass road.  It served its original purpose of allowing through traffic to easily transit through the beaches on its way to Manteo and Roanoke Island or Hatteras Island. 

This was about the time that I started going farther south to Rodanthe when I wanted to enjoy the beach. It was much more reminiscent of my childhood days and with our small three member family,  I would rent an efficiency at the motel next to the Rodanthe Pier, the one that washed away later in a hurricane. We only used it to rest and perhaps prepare a sandwich for lunch, and the rest of the time was spent on the beach or visiting on Roanoke Island. It was a great spot to stay on a special fishing trip with friends as well.

Later in the '80's and even early '90's, we would go even  farther south to Hatteras Village. My in-laws had a small house near the sound which we used as a base camp for surfcasting trips. Fishing in the ocean off Cape Hatteras Point was always a special treat and with a four-wheel drive Jeep to get there it offered good times for sure. During this timeframe, I also escorted my mother to her seventieth anniversary of graduation from Manteo High School and I delighted in the stories her classmates told me about how my mother was quite the tomboy in high school.  It was during that trip that I rented  rooms for the night on the oceanfront so that we didn't have to drive back to Newport News in the late hours. On that warm evening, we sat out on the balcony, enjoying the night ocean breeze and the sounds of the ocean as the waves rhythmically came ashore. It was then that my Mom told me that she was glad we came but she also didn't think it was home anymore.

My mind remembered what my Uncle Hal told me when we talked abut the new road shortly after it opened. 

He simply said, "Son, they'll do what they are gonna' do."

Every time I would come to the beach in those days, even if I wasn't staying in Nags Head I would always stop by and see Aunt Sylvia.  She was now showing her age and missed Uncle Hal who had died, but she always had an encouraging words and an abundance of food and she wouldn't let me go without partaking of one of her special meals. She loved to reminisce about the old days and my childhood and was deeply saddened by the massive change to the beach community she called home since leaving Wanchese. She was like that until her dying day and was one of the sweetest and most faithful of people who ever graced this earth.

Mom's comment told me that she agreed with her older sister and that the beach that she saw was not the one that she remembered.  And this is not an indictment of younger generations and their desire to change it to include modern amenities for technical advancement, an active nightlife and more things to be entertained by. It just means tht they have never experienced the simple joys of growing up in a time when one doesn't have to make his or her entertainment to be satisfied.  That satisfaction came from a walk on the beach, skimming shells on a quiet ocean or even creating make believe roads in the sand using an old shingle instead of fancy equipment. It's really just as simple as that.

Excepting my recent trip to Nags Head and the beaches this past April, my final trip to the Outer Banks was in July 1991 when I brought Mom and my sister to Aunt Sylvia's funeral.  It was a hot day and the church was packed and it touched me deeply, especially the singing of "Jesus Loves Me," which brought me to tears as I remembered her singing that to comfort me late one night in the cottage during a hurricane.  And when we left after a special reception and headed home, I knew there was now no reason for me to come back since I agreed with my mom's assessment.

And now, after visiting one more time this past spring, I know that Nags Head and the Outer Banks is a place for someone with different views of a beach than those I hold.  Seeing a quaint small family place turned into just another "same old, same old" tourist trip just isn't appealing to me, but I accept the fact that for many it's just fine, so I'll leave it to them.  I do hope, however, that enough common sense will prevail sometime in the near future to limit where it goes from here for the fragile banks can only be pushed so far and when that point is surpassed, something massive will take place to counter the trend and that will be done by nature.  The sea with its waves and surges and the supporting elements always win in the end.  I truly hope that point hasn't already been breached and I'll just pray that it isn't a disaster like what happened back on Oak Island in 1954 or the Great Ash Wednesday Storm of 1962 across the Outer Banks.  When and if that happens, with all of the added development and throngs of humanity and no infrastructure to deal with it, the Banks will likely be uninhabitable in the future.

If you enjoy savoring the beauty and simplicity of a softer time, you might enjoy my book, "Summers at Old Nags Head".  It available at this link, just copy and paste to your browser to learn more about this and my other Nags Head-related book: amazon.com/author/jamesdick.

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Nags Head oceanfront, circa 1950. From the Old Nags Header to the Nags Head Fishing Pier.
5 Comments
Lanore
7/24/2019 11:23:41 am

Love your stories of the old nags head. I only know what it looks like now, I f I’ve coming down too the OBX, but also know the ocean will take back what it wants. Thank you for your stories. 😀

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James Dick link
7/25/2019 10:39:17 am

I'm glad you enjoy the stories. Yes, the ocean will do what the ocean is going to do no matter what man thinks. It's one of the reasons I write what I do for we just seem to make the same mistakes over and over and over again and that doesn't end well.

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Laura Bezdan
7/24/2019 04:36:10 pm

I, too, grew up with the 'Old Nags Head' - when you had to get your vegetables on the way down at the stands - when just being there was entertainment enough: swimming, shells, fishing, naps in the hammock, long talks on the porch, and playing cards if it rained. Our cottage is the 3rd oldest on the Outer Banks - up on stilts for a reason - so that the water could come in, go under, and go right back out. I remember when you could see Jockey's Ridge as you came over the bridge. Our cottage is almost right across from it - and we can't even see it from across the street. When it was declared a National Park (by our good family friend Carlista) it was in hopes to avoid the wearing of it down or careless development near it. Looks like mother nature did it anyway. Re: the beach line - these folks who put up dunes in front of their houses are only creating cut outs and holding ponds - denying the natural flow. We bulldoze the sand back to the beach every year, so we maintain the flow. Although the beach has become too touristy and congested, I hope that people can still focus on the simpler pleasures of what it means to be at the beach. Enjoyed reading your post, and will look at your other writings. Thanks.

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James Dick link
7/25/2019 10:44:23 am

You and I share a lot of things about Nags Head, Laura, and while I know things change it seems like no one has taken the care to really consider what they've done. Mother Nature is going to do what Mother nature is going to do and man will then act shocked, for they never paid attention to the past. As I by the way, isn't your mother, Ruth Catlin, for I know her daughter is named Laura and your cottage description matches some of her comments as well. If so, glad you found the site.

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Suzanne Manzi
11/22/2019 08:40:12 am

I remember the beach as so wide in Early 50's. My family was in Manteo Wancheese and Rodanthe . We lived in Va Bch.d o the trip was all day across the Ferry and stopping to visit the relatives was a day spent at the PO ,General Store and fish house as the cousins lived where the worked.awesome memories. I get very nostalgic when I go down there now.I would love to relocate there.so much adventure !!
Thanks

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